Ugandan singer Chozen Becky is officially off the market after saying yes to her former driver, photographer turned bae, Abdul Ssekajja Qadir, in a surprise proposal that left jaws on the floor and hearts melting across social media. Here’s all we know.
The romantic moment went down on August 5th in Kitende, and yes—it was giving fairytale. Abdul dropped to one knee, pulled out that ring, and Becky couldn’t hold back the tears (and the yes). Friends, family, and a few mpalana all cheered as she accepted what many are now calling the most unexpected yet wholesome engagement of the year.
So, who exactly is Abdul Ssekajja Qadir?
Turns out, he’s not just some random guy who upgraded from the driver’s seat to the groom’s seat. Abdul is a trained psychologist, a social media manager, and recently, a photographer—yep, man has range!

According to Becky, Abdul showed up when she was at her lowest—fresh out of her rollercoaster relationship with blogger Dictator Amir (with whom she shares four kids and enough online drama to fill a whole season of reality TV).
But Abdul? He came in soft, quiet, respectful. “He offered me counseling sessions,” Becky revealed, adding that he’s the reason she managed to regain mental stability after years of emotional ups and downs.
But that’s not all. In true lover-boy mode, the man even picked up a camera and started taking professional photos of Becky just to boost her brand. “That made it easy for me to accept him,” she confessed.
On social media, fans have been in full celebration mode—praising Abdul for being the ultimate glow-up partner. While some are still digesting how Becky moved from a high-profile blogger to her driver. We have also been alerted that he has a son of his own with his ex lover.
Now being called “Mr. Becky” by fans online, Abdul Ssekajja Qadir is quickly becoming a man of public interest. Sources close to the couple say the wedding is definitely happening this year, and plans are already underway, or atleast some Kukyaala..
For now, Becky’s over the moon—and it shows. “My man loves me like no other… he’s been my everything and the reason behind all my happiness.”
We wish the couple all the best, and we’ll be here sipping juice waiting for that wedding invite.