South African based Ugandan socialite and business woman Zari Hassan Tlale has decided reveal some of the reasons why she always dates young, rich and juicy men instead of the old and mature-brained ones.
The socialite talks about love and relationships given the speedy rate at which people are peeping in her private life. The mother of five has never had a good time with her personal decisions about her love life given the fact they have always been influenced with mixed feelings from critics who some believe they are undeserving while others taking it that they are uncalled for basing on her status quo.
Zari has of recently been at center of criticism of hooking up a 29 year old South African actor Cedric Antony Fourie aka King Bae who is 10 years younger than her in addition to stinging her that much for having chosen to move on with a gay given her boyfriend's complicated previous love life.
Having already trekked through love and marriage with two different men and five children at hand, the 'Beauty with purpose from Busoga' with a lot of charisma has decided to raise her head up to remind critics that matters of the heart are always complicated and beyond human understanding no wonder someone's decision in love should be given utmost respect and made to count since in life, there are no determiners governing relationships hence one shouldn't be judgmental to another in such situations.
Through her Instagram official account, the Queen Bae inquisitively stings hard at critics in demand for their point of view about love.
"Okkkkkk lets have a one on one. It has become a habit in society that we tend to judge people's relationship in one way or another. I said 'we' including myself because I ain’t no saint, and at times I have fallen into the trap and not so positive way of thinking
Matters of the heart are complicated to some extent that are beyond our understanding. For example; When a young girl dates an older man she is instantly branded a gold digger, when an older woman dates a younger man, she is a Craddle Snatcher or maybe a desperate person.
When a woman or man dates someone more financially established by status quo this becomes a case of “you are after her or his money”. When you date a not so good looking man or woman that also raises a-few eyebrows because society kinda narrows you down depending on your status. Eg: A doctor or pilot, or oh no she sells at a market stall you can’t be dating such?!?! When your man or woman isn’t up to your standards, its a conversation of “levels”. Oh she or he can’t fit in with us. There are questions like; what does he or she do for a living, who are in her/his circle?!? This convoluted discussions and saga continues....... Love is and should be unconditional, love can be found in the most bizarre places with the least expected person. Its not the status nor the levels, not the financial stability or the public elevated status the list cld go on. I wana hear from you.
Do these points mentioned have a factor when you decide to love someone? "she narrated.